While you're ignoring your ex, you'll want to do a few things to let him or her know that you're moving on.

We talked about distracting yourself, that is, trying to take your mind off the break up by picking up a hobby, meeting new people, doing charity work, etc.

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But what actions should you do to make your ex attracted to you again without actually talking to her?

Use Facebook to get your ex backAgain, the magical ingredient here is to show your ex that you're happy. You can do this a multitude of ways, but one of the best ways to do this is Facebook.

Sure, your ex might have deleted you from Facebook... and if he or she has done that, it's okay. There are other ways you can make your ex jealous. However, you need to make sure that whatever you do, don't make it obvious you're trying to make your ex jealous.

So show your ex (and the world), that you're having a good time. Go out and take some pics of you being happy with a bunch of friends and post them on Facebook. Take some pictures of you with your new "date"... and just show the world that you're having a genuinely good time.

Update your status to tell the world that you're doing something new and exciting and that you want your friends' support.

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You'll want to play this card well -- because if your ex sees what you're doing, he or she is going to wonder they ever let you go!

Another way to make your ex want you again while you ignore your ex is talk to mutual friends. Do you have a friend that you share with your ex? Ask them to hang out! Show this friend that your life is on track and that you're dating other people. When word inevitably gets around, I guarantee that your ex will hear about it. And once he or she does, you'll look good. Very good.

A word of warning though: Whatever you do, do not contact your ex. Remember, you need to have a significant amount of time to pass before you can actually contact your ex and get them to fall in love with you again.

Right now, all you're doing is getting him or her ready and all set up so that when you do message them again after the 30 day or so period, he or she will be more receptive to your messages. Then, you can get on with the seducing!

Check out this free video below to learn more information on how to attract your ex back into your life!